TEDxSpeaker · TEDxSanStefano, Alexandria

Facilitation · Conflict Transformation

Look at the conflict together – instead of at each other.

I host spaces where teams and organisations make the unspoken visible — and move forward where conversations keep circling because everyone feels slighted.

Christina Wessendorf — facilitating live, the conversation made visible.
Christina Wessendorf — facilitating live, the conversation made visible.

Grounded in international peace work

  • TEDx Speaker
  • HWPL Peace Educator
  • Certified xchange Guide
  • YPAN — Youth Peace Ambassador Network
  • Rotary Peace Fellowship

The third space

Peace is a capability — not the absence of conflict.

Most negotiations stall not on the content but on the emotional layer: on feeling slighted, hidden agendas, and the way people talk under uncertainty. The “third space” opens when a group stops standing against each other and starts looking together at the same image.

Peace is learned decades before war.

How we work together

Three ways into the third space

  • Xchange Facilitation

    Structured dialogues and workshops for teams and organisations in change — psychological safety, group dynamics and collective intelligence, in the xchange approach.

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  • SIM-Translation

    My signature method: the emotional layer of a discussion translated into a live image — a “conflict picture” the group can look at together, where words fell short.

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  • Peace-Education Trainings

    Curriculum-based workshops and keynotes — from teacher trainings to peace-ambassador formats in schools, tested internationally (HWPL).

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TEDxTEDxSanStefano · Alexandria · „Feel anywhere at home in the world“

TEDx · Live proof

On a TEDx stage in Alexandria

There, in the city that shaped her, Christina argued that belonging isn’t a place you reach — it’s a capacity you carry. That same conviction now sits at the centre of her work: helping groups feel at home enough with each other to look at the hard thing together.

  • Belonging is portable — “home” is an inner state, not a location.
  • Difference doesn’t threaten belonging: many origins can coexist and still each belong.
  • Inner peace is the precondition for outer peace — the seed of her peace work today.

Official TEDx channel · “Feel anywhere at home in the world”. Transcript on request.

Method

SIM-Translation: the conversation becomes observable

Graphic recording visualises information. SIM-Translation (Sound-to-Image) visualises emotion — turning the conflict into an observable object, a “third instance in the room”.

  1. 01

    Translate live

    Simultaneously with the discussion, an image emerges that makes connections, tensions and stances visible — free of judgement and manipulation.

  2. 02

    Look together

    The group looks at the image together. The conflict is no longer between us — it becomes something we can observe together.

  3. 03

    Work with the image

    In dialogue or 1:1 coaching, participants communicate with the conflict picture — on a deeper, human level.

  4. Grounded in intercultural communication (Hall/Hofstede), Nonviolent Communication (Rosenberg), Appreciative Inquiry and the iceberg principle.

Christina Wessendorf facilitating a peace-education workshop
Peace-Education-Workshop, Indien — Facilitation in der Praxis.

Impact

What happens in the room

  • “For the first time we talked about the thing we’d only been fighting over.”

    Placeholder · Programme lead (reference to follow)

  • “She holds complexity and creates dialogue across differences.”

    Placeholder · Event host (reference to follow)

Selected references: HWPL teacher workshop Mongolia (≈100 participants), peace-ambassador series India, network gathering Berlin.

Christina Wessendorf speaking on stage
Keynote — Vorträge sind ihr Marketing-Motor und ihre Bühne.

About

A gardener, a translator, a host — not a hero

Christina Wessendorf is a peacebuilding practitioner, certified facilitator (xchange) and coach. As a member of the global peace organisation HWPL she advances peace education in schools — from Egypt to India, Mongolia and Berlin.

Her 2.5 years in Alexandria became the starting point: intercultural friction raised the question of how collaboration succeeds when words no longer suffice. From that, she developed SIM-Translation.

B.A. Cultural Management (Business & French) · DE / EN / FR / Arabic

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